Our true identity is neither male nor female. To begin to open up to the fact that we are Spirit, the mind has to loosen from worldly identifications and roles. The journey involves forgiveness and facing the fear of change, including the fear of what others will think and do. The only way through is to join in what is real and true; the love that is beneath it all. In this film, the image of the perfect marriage is shattered when Roy exposes a secret that he has kept hidden since childhood; the belief that he is a woman trapped in a man’s body. Roy can no longer play the husband or the male role, which sparks off a healing journey for him, his wife and his children.